Face sitting is such a strong fantasy for some people purely because of the one-sided nature of it. Unlike 69 — where both pleasure and focus are divided — face sitting is all about putting the attention entirely on one partner. In doing so both actually gain much more benefit from the experience. The action has roots in the BDSM movement and is often a girl-on-girl or girl-on-gent occasion. Power play is a large part of the appeal, and those who are sat on gain immense pleasure from the experience of being truly underneath their partner. In this way face sitting is still a very mutual exchange of gratification, but on an entirely different level. Face sitting is very straightforward and safe when done correctly.
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What’s So Great About Face Sitting?
It wasn't the first occasion on which the horny bitch had brought it up she's an Aries , those guys just don't let things go. And it wasn't the first time I'd replied with a full-body shiver and a, "Nooooo, it grims me out but I don't know why. I mean, I've done it loads of times in the past with male partners, and I enjoy being eaten out as much as the next guy. I'd also very happily have her ride my face to her little heart's content. But the thought of me being the sitter? It makes my butthole go all squiffy.
But Won’t I Squish Him?
If you're new here, you may want to get my discreet newsletter to learn how to make your lover sexually obsessed with you and only you. Click here to get it. It's free. It's discreet. Once you work out the mechanics, it might become one of your favorite sexual activities. He eats you out, which feels good. It can feel incredibly powerful and empowering, which works well during roleplay.
When it comes to receiving oral sex, many women's default position is to get on their backs. And there's a lot to be said for that: You can relax and let your partner worry about what to do. But there's also a lot to be said for receiving oral on top, AKA face-sitting. For one thing, it puts you in complete control, and some women find that it also provides a better angle.
